For those who live in Gurgaon

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Urusvati Museum, Shikhopur – Celebrating Local Folklore

Trying to find cultural places in agriculture dominated Haryana is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. But then you can always expect life to throw some surprises up sometime. While doing an article on unusual museums in and around Delhi, I came across Urusvati museum, which is just on the outskirts of Gurgaon, less than 20 kms from IFFCO chowk towards Jaipur and only about a km off the national highway. This small hidden gem takes you through the romantic journey of many lovers through paintings and folk tales and acquaints you with the local culture away from the city chaos.

Housed in double storey building within a sprawling green patch of land, almost like an oasis in a desert , this farm house turned museum takes you far away from the city life and takes you through the folk life some real and some mythical. This museum was established in 2002 and is regularly used by schools to introduce children to various art forms and to provide a platform where artists can get together. Spread over 8000 Sq ft there is an ample space available for such activities.

As you enter the museum, you would see the traditional stories carved in Terracotta tablets which are put on the pillars of the front courtyard. Amongst others there are stories of Maharana Pratap, Mira Bai and her beloved Krishna. On some of the tablets, the potter has proudly put his signatures while others chose to be anonymous. There are paintings on some of the pillars depicting the love stories of the yesteryears. There is ample seating arrangement for you to sit and admire the lush green surroundings, which has a swimming pool, a well and an Ayurvedic garden. There are two walking paths, a walkway called Thandi Sadak and another called Gul Gulfam walk where you can walk surrounded by the tall silver oak trees, with a distant feeling of being in Kashmir.

On the wall of the front courtyard is Sanjhi, a folk art form, rooted in the local beliefs and culture. This is something that took me to my childhood, when my grandmother used to put Sanjhi on the walls of our ancestral home in Punjab, before Dussehra. Sanjhi is a form of Goddess which according to some literature is worshipped by unmarried girls. As far as I remember, my grandmother used to do this because she wished for something and said if her wish is fulfilled she would put Sanjhi on the walls of her house every year till she is alive. This is how we got to learn about and celebrate Sanjhi with her. All the neighborhood kids use to join for the Pooja, sing songs and wait eagerly for the Prasad that followed. Some people also say that it is to attract wealth and prosperity that you put Sanjhi on the walls of your house. Now what is interesting about this 9 day long ritual is that you create the Goddess out of clay and cow dung yourself. There are some basic things that you make like her face, moon, sun, stars, birds, animals and her body, but then you are free to decorate it any which way. You use match sticks with molded clay to make the sun rays. You can paint these pieces any which way and paint the Goddess in the colors of your choice, with base color being the color of the clay. Cow dung is used as an adhesive to paste all the clay pieces together so that the image of Goddess is created on the wall. Sometimes a cloth is put on top of the Goddess, but it is optional. After this every evening, there is Pooja, followed by distribution of Prasad. Ninth day the Goddess is taken off the wall and taken to nearby water body, usually the village pond and immersed in it, and begins the wait for the Goddess to return the next year. This was my most treasured discovery in this museum, which connected me with a part of my past that I had almost forgotten and would have never recalled it if I had not seen a very familiar Sanjhi on the wall.

On the first and second floor is the main museum, where there are various displays like paintings, fabrics, embroidery forms, jewellery, garments, dresses, utensils, dance costumes, head gears, cow bells, musical instruments and perfume boxes from almost all north Indian states. There are items that used at specific occasions like the one in Kullu Dussehra. There is an attempt to describe the fairs and festivals of the region through the typical rituals and associated things like music and dance. The range of items captures the nuances of the region and goes beyond what is obviously known about this region. There are a lot of items that you would typically see at the village fairs. There are artifacts of everyday use which are no longer a part of our daily lives like the ones used to make lassi.

Love stories and folklore are the main theme of this museum. Now there are some famous love stories that we know of like Laila Majnu, Heer Ranjha, Sohni Mahiwal, Shiri Farhad, Sassi Punnu and Rustam Sohrab, most of which are based in erstwhile Punjab. But have you heard of stories of Usha and Anirudha of Himachal, Habba Khatun of Kashmir, Roopmati Baaz bahadur of MP, Momal and Bhupinder of Rajasthan, or the stories from Haryana like Nihal de-Nar sultan, Heeramal-Jamaal and Chap Singh-Somvati. Then there are stories from literature like Nal Damyanti and Shakuntala Dushyant which have been depicted via miniature paintings bringing alive the erstwhile literature and evoking curiosity to read them. Beyond love stories, there were also other folk stories of the region about the fakirs and saints and famous people, parables like Akeh Nandan which take you back into the past where messages passed through generations through these oral stories. What I found extremely interesting is that all the stories are handwritten in the museum, calligraphically. On the face of it, it may look like a random observation, but a handwritten word is far more personal and real than a printed page. It almost feels as if the writer is personally telling you the story.

To wrap up your visit, there is a souvenir shop in the museum, where you can buy items crafted by various craftsmen. I wish there were more items to pick and choose from, specially the one with absolute local flavor. There is an entry fee of Rs 50/- which I think is steep compared to most museums in the country where it hardly exceeds Rs 10/-, but then this is a private museum and funds need to flow in for running and maintenance. Do pickup the booklet on love legends of Haryana published by the museum which has folk stories from Haryana along with beautiful illustrations.

For those living in Gurgaon and around, this is a good place to spend a lazy day not too far from the city.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Gourmet Gurgaon - I



Food is a basic necessity as well as a motivation for most of us. Gurgaon like most cosmopolitan places offers variety of food for its residents and visitors. These are some of the places that I have visited and enjoyed and sometimes not:

  1. Rajdhani, MGF Metropolitan Mall: Best Gujarati thali in town. Best way to enjoy this thali is: Get up late on a weekend, have some light breakfast if you must and then be there by 12, eat slowly and enjoy the spectrum of dishes, come back and sleep like a baby. Tell me could you try everything that they had to offer.

  1. Rodeos, MGF Metropolitan Mall: Avoidable Mexican food. Ambience is decent but food is pathetic.

  1. Bernardos Goan Cuisine, Galleria Market: Probably the only restaurant that serves Goan fish curry. I had a nice eggplant curry with rice. Okish food, no ambience.

  1. Coco-Palm, Galleria Market: Authentic south Indian food. I like the appams and vegetable stew a lot.

  1. Naivedhyam, Vipul Plaza, Sushant Lok –I: Good South Indian food. Any time you want standard south Indian food, you can walk there for an authentic experience. Basic ambience, standard Udupi restaurant format.

  1. Bikanerwala, Sec: 29: The whole gambit for Indian fast food from Chats to Chhole Bhature to South Indian Snacks to Ice Creams along with carries with you Sweets and savories. I wish they could serve things without Paneer or cheese too. You get all the street food here but no matter what you do food can never be as tasty as the one on the street. The over sensitivity to hygiene takes away the essence of the food sometimes. Now what fun it is to make Gol gappas for yourself, they have to come customized into your plate by someone standing there and making it just for you.

  1. Park Plaza, Sushant Lok – I: A decent Buffet, but quality of food leaves much to be desired.

  1. Nirula's Potpourri, DT Mall: Decent Continental food. To old Delhiwallahs, Nirula’s stands for its Manhattan Mania and for our first taste of burgers and pizzas. This new avatar is making its way but will have to compete with itself.

  1. Dineesty, Sushant Lok-I: Good far eastern food, can not say how authentic, but it is different enough to be thought as authentic. I liked the food that I ordered. The quantities they serve are huge, so be careful if you are in a group.

  1. Monk, Galaxy Towers, Sec: 15: Eastern cuisine, Love the food and the ambience. An enclosure within an open space gives it a different ambience. For those of you who take beer, the freshly brewed beer should be a good attraction to visit this place.

  1. Bistrot at Sarovar Premium, Sec: 29: One of the best buffets in town. The place is still new so you would not find too much crowd here. They have a wide variety of Indian and continental food and the array of desserts is just mouth watering and eye catching. The huge hall gives you a feeling of space and allows you to have your own space. The staff is courteous and professional.

  1. Swagath Restaurant, Sec: 29: Go here if you like coastal cuisines of the west coast of India. The ambience is decent, food is ok.

  1. Mojos, DT City Center: Gives you the best value for money buffet on weekends. The menu is limited but well balanced and the taste compensates for the lack of choice in items.

  1. Fresco, Ambience Mall: For treating yourself to continental food with arrays of choice, go here for a lazy weekend lunch and eat to your heart’s content. I like the casual and colorful ambience of this place along with the choice of food.

  1. Aromas of China, Ambience Mall: For a cuisine that is somewhere between the authentic Chinese food and Indian Chinese food, visit this place. The dusky environment takes you away from the noisy environment of the mall.

  1. Kobe Sizzlers, Ambience Mall: Bombay’s famous sizzlers in Gurgaon. I like the basic veg sizzler here, and I usually ignore everything else on the menu. Try the pepper sauce with your sizzler.

  1. Barbeque Nation, Sushant Lok-I: A perfect place to go during Dilli ki Sardi. Sit next to the in-table barbeque, eat right out of it. There are a wide variety of appetizers or pre-meal snacks. This is the USP of this restaurant followed by a simple buffet meal. Enjoy this place during the winter months when you can eat a lot and can enjoy the warmth of the barbeque.

  1. Toninos, M G Road: For the authentic Italian food around Gurgaon. The variety is almost endless, if you are able to taste even half the delicacies, you should feel great. Live music adds zing to the otherwise serene ambience. You can also pick up various food items from the shop outside specially the breads.

  1. Drift at Epicenter, Sec: 44: Open ambience, an option to sit in the open and decent food makes this an inviting place. You can catch up the happenings at epicenter and wind it up with a good meal at Drift. Look out for special food festivals they sometimes host.

  1. Pind Baluchi, Sec: 29: If someone says I want to have local good in a good restaurant, this is where you need to take them. You can also go there when you are not in a mood to experiment with food and would like to stick to ‘ghar jaisa khana’. Typical Punjabi food, served in traditional wares by staff dressed traditionally.


Of course, there are various Haldiram’s around the city that you can not miss, but I am giving them a miss in this list.

Disclaimer: My experience is limited to the vegetarian food.